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🌊 Day 151 Ocean Swim - Reflecting on Retirement and Cultural Differences - Ocean Swim Series
🌊 Tomorrow is my wife’s final day of work. Talking about retirement with Yumiko feels a little like a taboo subject. Maybe it’s a Japanese thing to remain quiet in the presence of evident blessing? That makes sense, though it’s a very different approach from the way I talk openly about absolutely everything, good and bad. One sign though that she is happy about the change is when I saw a brief smile on her face when she told me of an email suggesting a meeting for next week, in which her name wasn’t included on the list of people expected to attend. It’s a start. 👍 (KB)
#GoingAlone #retirement #softypapa
On Day 151 of the Ocean Swim Series, Kurt Bell delves into a deep conversation with his wife, Yumiko, as they approach a significant milestone: her final day of work. 🏊‍♂️👫 As they discuss the prospect of retirement, Kurt reflects on the cultural nuances between his open communication style and the more reserved, traditionally Japanese approach that Yumiko embodies. This difference is highlighted by her subtle smile upon realizing she was not included in a meeting invite for the upcoming week-a small but telling sign of her feelings about stepping away from her career.
Kurt Bell, an American explorer and author, shares his insights and personal experiences as he and Yumiko navigate this transitional phase. With a keen interest in the intersections of culture, personal growth, and life’s transitions, Kurt’s observations are both thoughtful and enlightening. Join them as they explore the unspoken joys and challenges of retirement within the context of cultural diversity. 🌏📚
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🌐 Website: goingalone.org
📧 Email: dinnerbytheriver@gmail.com
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Be safe… But not too safe.
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“Japanese Falls” image: Lane Brown | View More: lanebrownart.blogspot.com/p/portfolio.html
“Song For Kurt” theme: Nowherians | Listen Here: nowherians.bandcamp.com/
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🌊 Day 150 Ocean Swim - It’s Time for Us to Go - The Quest for a Settled Life - Ocean Swim Series
Переглядів 302 години тому
🌊 “It’s really time for us to go.” I said jokingly to my wife as we loaded groceries into the car. She’d asked me to stop by Joann Crafts after Trader Joe’s in order to get some craft supplies for a bouquet she’s making for Emily’s graduation. “What do you mean?” she asked. “Well,” I said “I know how to get to Joann Crafts without the navigation app, it’s just down on Adams street. That’s how I...
🌊 Day 149 Ocean Swim - Sweet Halcyon Days in California - Ocean Swim Series
Переглядів 264 години тому
🌊 These sweet halcyon days of #California are now becoming few and dear, and I don’t dare take a one for granted.☀️ (KB) #adventure #GoingAlone #softypapa 🌊 On Day 149 of the Ocean Swim Series, Kurt Bell soaks in the serene halcyon days of California, a reminder of the fleeting nature of life’s perfect moments. ☀️ As the sun sets slowly over the horizon, each swim in the tranquil waters becomes...
🌊 Day 148 Ocean Swim - Life’s Optical Illusion: Japan Closes In, America Fades - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 148 Ocean Swim - Life’s Optical Illusion: Japan Closes In, America Fades - Ocean Swim Series
🏠 Sayonara America: Reflecting on a Decade of Dynamic Living - Return to Japan
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🏠 Sayonara America: Reflecting on a Decade of Dynamic Living - Return to Japan
🏍️ My Final Ride - A Farewell to Motorcycles | Let’s Ride! BMW R 1150 GSA
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🏍️ My Final Ride - A Farewell to Motorcycles | Let’s Ride! BMW R 1150 GSA
🌸 “Abandon the Trail, Abandon the Trail” - softypapa shorts 🚶‍♂️🇯🇵🌲🛤️
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🌸 “Abandon the Trail, Abandon the Trail” - softypapa shorts 🚶‍♂️🇯🇵🌲🛤️
🌊 Day 147 Ocean Swim - A Lesson in Purpose from a Retired Fire Marshal - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 147 Ocean Swim - A Lesson in Purpose from a Retired Fire Marshal - Ocean Swim Series
🌊 Day 146 Ocean Swim - The Struggle at Work: Falling Away from the Pack - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 146 Ocean Swim - The Struggle at Work: Falling Away from the Pack - Ocean Swim Series
🚶‍♂️ I Got My New Bear Bell! Softypapa Version 2.0 - Walking in Japan
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🚶‍♂️ I Got My New Bear Bell! Softypapa Version 2.0 - Walking in Japan
🌊 Day 145 Ocean Swim - Reflecting on a Life Transition: Beyond America - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 145 Ocean Swim - Reflecting on a Life Transition: Beyond America - Ocean Swim Series
🌊 Day 144 Ocean Swim - The Passing Torch: Training My Successor - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 144 Ocean Swim - The Passing Torch: Training My Successor - Ocean Swim Series
🌊 Day 143 Ocean Swim - The Weight of Ambition and the Quest for Balance - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 143 Ocean Swim - The Weight of Ambition and the Quest for Balance - Ocean Swim Series
🚶‍♂️ Nephew Parker and I Visit the Richard M. Nixon Presidential Library
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🚶‍♂️ Nephew Parker and I Visit the Richard M. Nixon Presidential Library
🌊 Day 142 Ocean Swim - The Wisdom of Growing Old Together - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 142 Ocean Swim - The Wisdom of Growing Old Together - Ocean Swim Series
🌊 Day 141 Ocean Swim - A Day with Emily at the Beach - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 141 Ocean Swim - A Day with Emily at the Beach - Ocean Swim Series
🌊 Day 140 Ocean Swim - A Message to My Younger Self - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 140 Ocean Swim - A Message to My Younger Self - Ocean Swim Series
🌊 Day 137 Ocean Swim - Navigating New Horizons: My Social Media Shift & Return to Japan
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🌊 Day 137 Ocean Swim - Navigating New Horizons: My Social Media Shift & Return to Japan
🚶‍♂️ Climbing Mt. Ryuso - Softypapa Adventures - Walking in Japan
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🚶‍♂️ Climbing Mt. Ryuso - Softypapa Adventures - Walking in Japan
☀️ The Good Life - 03/05/2024 (287) - Working hard, but not leaning in to work
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☀️ The Good Life - 03/05/2024 (287) - Working hard, but not leaning in to work
🌊 Day 136 Ocean Swim - Embracing Solitude: A New Chapter Begins - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 136 Ocean Swim - Embracing Solitude: A New Chapter Begins - Ocean Swim Series
☀️ The Good Life - 03/04/2024 (288) - Hating my lifetime of work
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☀️ The Good Life - 03/04/2024 (288) - Hating my lifetime of work
🌊 Day 135 Ocean Swim - The Elevator Confession - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 135 Ocean Swim - The Elevator Confession - Ocean Swim Series
☀️ The Good Life - 03/03/2024 (289) - Work obituary
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☀️ The Good Life - 03/03/2024 (289) - Work obituary
🌊 Day 134 Ocean Swim - A Visit with Neighbor Bob - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 134 Ocean Swim - A Visit with Neighbor Bob - Ocean Swim Series
☀️ The Good Life - 03/02/2024 (290) - Holding my tongue about retirement
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☀️ The Good Life - 03/02/2024 (290) - Holding my tongue about retirement
🌊 Day 133 Ocean Swim - Embracing the Fullness of Life on an Empty Beach - Ocean Swim Series
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🌊 Day 133 Ocean Swim - Embracing the Fullness of Life on an Empty Beach - Ocean Swim Series
☀️ The Good Life - 03/01/2024 (291) - In the departure lobby
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☀️ The Good Life - 03/01/2024 (291) - In the departure lobby
☀️ The Good Life - 02/29/2024 (292) - A very good day
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☀️ The Good Life - 02/29/2024 (292) - A very good day
☀️ The Good Life - 02/28/2024 (293) - Goodbye forever, Roy
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☀️ The Good Life - 02/28/2024 (293) - Goodbye forever, Roy

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @user-po7jc5pj2q
    @user-po7jc5pj2q 13 годин тому

    What about heat, like removing a tic?

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 10 годин тому

      That might work. But, you have to beware the danger of the leach regurgitating its stomach contents into the wound.

  • @shirleyz7400
    @shirleyz7400 13 годин тому

    Yikes! 😬😱

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 10 годин тому

      Definitely yikes worthy. 😀

  • @MageBlackstone
    @MageBlackstone 15 годин тому

    A blast from the past :)

  • @livelovelaughati4807
    @livelovelaughati4807 20 годин тому

    Omfg

  • @davidmatthews3093
    @davidmatthews3093 21 годину тому

    I don’t understand your logic. At 67 I spend more time on motorcycles now than at any time in my life as I have the time to enjoy what the can do to enhance my life. Why do you think that your accident free record will come crashing down post 60. These days I have reasonably small, reasonably light bikes but bikes that can take me and my camping gear across continents and to the top of mountains. I won’t be giving that up anytime soon. Perhaps you’re feeling too old to lug around a heavyweight dinosaur like the GS but that’s no reason to stop riding altogether. I also have an E-bike and enjoy that too but I feel far more vulnerable on that that I do on any of my motorcycles.

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 10 годин тому

      It’s not that I’m particularly worried about crashing at this age, as much I’m concerned about how long it might take for me to heal. Also, motorcycles simply do not interest me much anymore. I have many other things I’d rather do with my time. I wish you all the best with your endeavors! :-)

  • @wybuchowyukomendant
    @wybuchowyukomendant 22 години тому

    They don`t like salt, you just need to cry on it ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 10 годин тому

      Thank you for your suggestion. :-)

  • @jonathan-wh4pg
    @jonathan-wh4pg День тому

    Were you able to finish it 😮😮

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 23 години тому

      Yes! I did! :-)

  • @twinlamps
    @twinlamps 2 дні тому

    Nice ring girlfrannd😂

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa День тому

      Thank you very much. :-)

  • @iCE2sKY
    @iCE2sKY 2 дні тому

    Great !! but to not swim 🏊 to Japan , it is better if you take a boat ⛵ or an airplan✈ :)

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa День тому

      Great suggestion! Thank you. :-)

  • @iCE2sKY
    @iCE2sKY 3 дні тому

    This neighborhood looks okay but I think Japan is more healthy place to live in? Hope so coz you are moving there :) ✈

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 2 дні тому

      Japan is an amazing place to call home. I can't wait to get back "home" to the land which possesses my heart. :-)

    • @iCE2sKY
      @iCE2sKY 2 дні тому

      @@softypapa Im happy to hear `that you return to another "home" and you feel happy 4 it!! I understand you too coz I have the same life situation: 2 #homes" :)🏠🏡

  • @StrangeScaryNewEngland
    @StrangeScaryNewEngland 3 дні тому

    What a fun little hike. I don't know how I missed this one when you posted it, but I don't remember seeing it! Wicked relaxing and I love the golden glow of the bamboo. Also, I know it's highly illegal there, but I wonder if the skunk smell was coming from a nearby patch of someone growing pot? -Cole

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa День тому

      Thank you for your nice comment and well wishes. I really appreciate it! 😀

  • @StrangeScaryNewEngland
    @StrangeScaryNewEngland 6 днів тому

    Kurt... Was that some kind of forest crab near the end??? Lol.

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 4 дні тому

      Yes. There are many land crabs in this area.

  • @tjn6278
    @tjn6278 7 днів тому

    looking forward to seeing you back in japan. loved the hiking and abandoned japan vids

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 7 днів тому

      Thank you for your nice message and long support. I can’t wait to get back and make more videos. 😊

    • @StrangeScaryNewEngland
      @StrangeScaryNewEngland 6 днів тому

      @@softypapa I can't wait, either, Kurt! Lol! -Cole

  • @greenmc8
    @greenmc8 8 днів тому

    Welcome back! Good luck with the move. I’m probably moving back to the states soon. How funny we keep switching places.

    • @softypapa
      @softypapa 7 днів тому

      Thank you for your well wishes. And good luck with your own move! 😊☀️👍